The holidays are all about leaning into the magic of the season with twinkling lights, cozy nights in, and the joy of giving gifts that make the people you love light up. As a spouse, you’re in a uniquely powerful position to actually outdo Santa as #1 Gift Giver this season. You know her better than anyone, from the little comforts she gravitates toward and the treats she’d never buy for herself, which means you can give a gift that feels personal in a way no one else can pull off.
She likely does a lot to keep the household running all year round, often in ways that go unnoticed, which makes this the perfect moment to shift the focus back to her. Maybe she would love a new top-of-the-line vacuum, and you should absolutely treat her to it! But there is something to be said about saving the practical upgrades for a mid-year surprise, and letting the holidays be about comfort, joy, and gifts that make her feel valued beyond what she can do for other people.
